SoulMinder: 3rd Week, December 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

Last week was a week filled with anxiety for my family and me.  My 76 year-old father endured two serious surgeries and suffered a frightening reaction to his anesthesia.  So much could have gone wrong, but didn't.  That's got me thinking about how fear gets in the way of and even prevents peace.

Perhaps today's slide show, courtesy of ACW, will help you the next time you find yourself mired in fear and doubt:

Do Not Fear

SoulMinder Solution

  • What do you fear the most?
  • How does that fear get in the way of your relationship with Abba?

Do not fear,

Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

SoulMinder: 2nd Week, December 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

I need a little comfort this week, so I thought you might, too.  My 76 year-old father is in the hospital all week undergoing two neck surgeries to reduce his risk of stroke.  While Dad's being cared for, I'm stepping in to do what he normally does:  care for my invalid mother.  So things are just a wee bit stressful this week ... :)

ACW offers a series of reminders of God's comfort with this short but sweet slide show based on the Psalms:

Comfort

SoulMinder Solution

  • In what area of your life could you use a little comfort?  And if by chance you don't need any comfort, who do you know who does?
  • Take a moment to petition for your own comfort needs or intercede on behalf of someone else through prayer.

Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

SoulMinder: 1st Week, December 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

Now that Advent is upon us and the Season of Giving fast approaches, perhaps it's wise to take a moment to remember why all of that matters.  JourneyWithSpirit.com suggests that Love is the reason.  What do you think?

The River of Love

SoulMinder Solution

What helps you to remember God's love for you and for all creation?  Make a list of those things that remind you of God's gracious love and pray over one item each day.  Take time to give thanks and to share love.

May the River of Love rush through you this holiday season,

Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

SoulMinder: 5th Week, November 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

It's always a bit of shock to my system to have a wonderfully relaxing Thanksgiving weekend followed abruptly by the rush of the holiday shopping season.  Traffic grows exponentially - as does rudeness and irritation.

It seems fitting, therefore, to focus this morning's SoulMinder on inner peace.  As Joan Borysenko points out in her WisdomFlash courtesy of ConsciousOne.com, kindness is a natural gift we can offer one another if we choose consciously to share it.

Inner Peace

SoulMinder Solution

In what small conscious way can you share kindness with others as you go about your holiday shopping?  Here are just a few suggestions:

  • Smile at each salesperon and cashier you encounter.
  • Hold the door open for those behind you.
  • Play music or a soulful CD while you drive around doing errands.
  • Take time to savor the sights and sounds of the holiday season as you shop.
  • Say a prayer for each person you allow into the lane in front of your car.  Say a prayer for each person who fails to allow you into the lane in front of their car.
  • Count your blessings and write them down.

May you discover that peace is possible even in the midst of busyness,

Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

SoulMinder: 4th Week, November 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

What are you thankful for this week?  As for me, I'm grateful that just last week my father's heart surgeon found two blockages in his neck (80% and 90%) before they caused a stroke.  I'm also greatful that last Friday my Dad went to the ER promptly when he had pressure in his left arm.  It turned out he had a mild heart attack, but since he went to the hospital so promptly the doctors were able to minimize the damage.  What a blessing!

Whether you celebrate Thanksgiving this week or not, now is always a good time to give thanks.  I hope today's slide show, courtesy of InterviewwithGod.com, helps remind you what you are thankful for:

Give Thanks

SoulMinder Solution

May I suggest using this slide show as a meditation?  Use the images, time, and music as prompts to give you space in which to consider the people and things you are most grateful for.  Why not list them?  I challenge you to list 100 people and things you are grateful for this week.

If that feels like an impossible task, then start a list and work on it as the week progresses.  Just jot down a few more ideas every time they occur to you, rather than trying to complete your list all at once.  And here's a helpful hint:  be as specific as you can.  Rather than saying, "I'm thankful for all of my family members", list each person individually.

When your list is complete, pray over each item on the list and give due thanks for the blessing it represents to you.

May your Thanksgiving be filled with thanksgiving,

Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

SoulMinder: 3rd Week, November 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

It is truly amazing how much difference a little perseverance can make, as you will see when you view today's inspiring slideshow.  212*: The Extra Degree, comes to us courtesy of SimpleTruths.com.  Enjoy!

212*: The Extra Degree

SoulMinder Solution

  • Select one area of your life that isn't yet all you know it should be.
  • Pinpoint one small thing you could do which would help you put forth more effort in that area.
  • Put that small thing in your planner and do it.
  • Afterward, reward yourself with a soul-nurturing action or break.

May you be inspired by the simple act of boiling water!

Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

SoulMinder: 2nd Week, November 2006

SoulMinder Inspiration

Here we are in November already with the holiday rush hastening all around us.  It's only three weeks until we celebrate Thanksgiving in the U.S. ... can you believe it?

If like most of us you are already crunched for time, then the fact that the holidays bring more deadlines and more to do's may bring, well, more stress.  That means it's time to unschedule!

Unschedule?  If you haven't heard the term, it's the name of an innovative way to schedule from Neil Fiore, author of The Now Habit:  A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination & Enjoying Guilt-Free Play.  Neil's program is intended to help guarantee and protect your personal time from being overcome by the tyranny of too many work to do's.

Neil's idea is schedule in advance only these things:

  • Previously committed time such as meal, sleep, and meetings
  • Socializing
  • Health activities/exercise
  • Structured events such as commuting time, classes, and medical appointments

Fill in your Unschedule with work on projects only after you have completed at least 30 minutes of the project work. That's right - you're scheduling after rather than before you begin.  Think of your Unschedule as a time clock that you use to punch in when you officially begin work and punch out when you're ready to take credit for your progress:

  • Take credit only for at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted work time.  That is, don't record the project time on your schedule if you did it for less than 30 non-stop minutes.
  • Each time you complete a 30-minute work period, reward yourself with a break or a gear shift into something more enjoyable.
  • Track the number of work hours you achieve each day and week.
  • Reward yourself for what you accomplished by giving yourself more personal time.
  • Leave one full day open each week for recreation and small chores.  [In this way you will avoid the resentment that follows when too much work postpones or shortens holidays and rest periods.]
  • Before going to a social commitment or engaging in a leisure activity, take time out for 30 minutes of work on your project.
  • Think small, not big, and you will accomplish much, much more.  Don't aim to achieve four continuous hours on some big project - rather, aim for just 30 minutes of high quality, focused work.  Once you achieve one 30-minute block and then reward yourself with something fun, you can return to working for another 30-minute block of project time, followed by another break, and so on, thereby creating more balance throughout your work day.
  • Keep starting by getting to work on a project on time and finishing the project will follow as naturally as night follows day.
  • Never end on a down note.  That is, never stop a work period when you feel blocked or you find yourself at the end of a section.  Keep going just until you work through the block or begin that new section, then stop.  This will ensure that motivation keeps you going rather than aiding and abetting your procrastination.

SoulMinder Solution

Try the Unschedule for one day to see how it fits you.  Begin by jotting down all of your:

  • Previously committed time such as meal, sleep, and meetings
  • Socializing
  • Health activities/exercise
  • Structured events such as commuting time, classes, and medical appointments
  • Then begin working on a project or work task.  When you have completed 30 minutes of uninterrupted work, reward yourself with a fun break.  Afterward, return to your work task and complete another 30 minutes.  Then take another break, and keep repeating this process until it's time to go home. 

    Try the same process in your personal life by alternating 30 minutes of chores/errands with fun breaks, and see if you don't accomplish more with less wear and tear on your spirit!

    Here's to unscheduling work!

    Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

    SoulMinder: 1st Week, November 2006

    SoulMinder Inspiration

    This end-of-October, beginning-of-November week is filled with meaning for me.  All Souls' Day, better known as Halloween, All Saints' Day, my beloved grandmother's birthday (she would have been 96), and my own birthday (I'll be 47) all inspire me to think deeply about life.  Hence, it seemed a good day to take a look at one of Nic Askew's Monday9amTv.com films, At the Feet of the Wiseman:

    At the Feet of the Wiseman

    SoulMinder Solution

    Are you ready to listen to the still, small voice of Wisdom with you?  Are you ready to believe that it is possible for you to connect with the source of all knowledge by turning inward?

    Why not try the simple yet profound exercise that Tim Gallwey recommended in this film?  Here it is:

    • Ask yourself:  What do I want?  If it helps, make a list of all the things you want, then select one item on your list to work with.
    • Next ask yourself:  What do want I this for?
    • Once you know, ask yourself again:  What do I want this for?
    • Keep asking yourself that question until you arrive at a universal answer (an answer that all of us hold in common).
    • When you arrive at your universal answer, try carrying that with you throughout the day.  What difference, if any, does it make when you do this?

    May your journey into deeper wisdom be filled with peace,

    Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist

    Take Back Your Time Day

    TakebackyourdayDid you know that October 24th is Take Back Your Time Day?  Sponsored by TimeDay,org, this 3rd annual U.S./Canadian initiative "challenges the epidemic of overwork, over-scheduling and time famine that now threatens our health, our families and relationships, our communities and our environment."

    Consider these facts:

  • We're putting in longer hours on the job now than we did in the 1950s, despite promises of a coming age of leisure before the year 2000.
  • In fact, we're working more than medieval peasants did, and more than the citizens of any other industrial country.
  • Mandatory overtime is at near record levels, in spite of a recession.
  • On average, we work nearly nine full weeks (350 hours) LONGER per year than our peers in Western Europe do.
  • Working Americans average a little over two weeks of vacation per year, while Europeans average five to six weeks. Many of us (including 37% of women earning less than $40,000 per year) get no paid vacation at all.
  • TIME STRESS HURTS ALL OF US IN DIFFERENT WAYS:

    • Time stress threatens our health. It leads to fatigue, accidents and injuries. It reduces time for exercise and encourages consumption of calorie-laden fast foods. Job stress and burnout costs the U.S. economy more than $300 billion a year.
    • Time stress threatens our marriages, families and relationships as we find less time for each other, less time to care for our children and elders, less time to just hang out.
    • It weakens our communities. We have less time to know our neighbors, supervise our young people, and volunteer.
    • It reduces employment as fewer people are hired and then required to work longer hours, or are hired for poor part-time jobs without benefits.
    • It leaves many of us with little time to vote, much less be informed, active citizens.
    • It leaves us little time for ourselves, for self-development, or for spiritual growth.
    • It leads to growing neglect and abuse of pets.
    • It even contributes to the destruction of our environment. Studies show that lack of time encourages use of convenience and throwaway items and reduces recycling.

    TAKE BACK YOUR TIME DAY IS NOT ANTI-WORK. Useful and creative work is essential to happiness. But American life has gotten way out of balance. Producing and consuming more have become the single-minded obsession of the American economy, while other values -- strong families and communities, good health and a clean environment, active citizenship and social justice, time for nature and the soul -- are increasingly neglected.

    The main goal of TAKE BACK YOUR TIME DAY is to call attention to the problem and begin the public conversation about what to do about it. Some of the solutions will be personal, each in our own lives. Others will be cultural, as we evolve new norms about life balance. Still others will involve voluntary changes in the workplace and children's activity programs, or changes through collective bargaining agreements. We talk about why work/life balance is good for both employees and employers; about how to create decent part-time jobs and about solutions for low-income workers who can't afford to work less.

    Get involved by visiting TimeDay.org and taking time today to be with the people you most love!

    [Adapted from TimeDay.org.]

    SoulMinder: 4th Week, October 2006

    SoulMinder Inspiration

    Have you ever found yourself surrounded by darkness?  Drifting into depression?  Burdened by shadows?  If so, then perhaps this morning's SoulMinder, courtesy of DaySpring, will remind you that where there is light, there is hope:

    Let There Be Light

    SoulMinder Solution

    • What darkness do you experience in your life?
    • In what small ways do you notice God transforming that darkness into light?

    May the Light shine brightest in our darkest nights,

    Cheryl Lynch Simpson, Inner Archaeologist


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